Monday, December 10, 2012

Ways of Dealing With Heartbreak


        Girl are you frustrated because you just got out of a relationship that you thought was really going somewhere? If so don't dwell so much on what you should have done different and most importantly don't blame yourself. I know it's much easier said than done but don't get stuck in the past. It's the worst place you could possibly be. Think positively and move on. You only have one life so don't beat yourself over a guy who probably didn't even deserve you.  Here are a couple of things I suggest doing when trying to get over a heartbreak.
Speak the truth in a calm matter: It's hard ending a relationship, especially if you guys have been together for a while; and more often than not relationships don't just end. Individuals from both parties are usually still communicating with each other before they completely stop talking. But let me ask you this, doesn't that just make it harder? So instead of dealing with such things be honest with him, tell him your thoughts and feelings and wish him luck with his career and life in general. And stop talking to him (this will really help you move on; it’s like ripping of a band aid) Show him that you're capable of living without him. Because trust me girl you are!
Focus on yourself: don't constantly wonder on how he feels about you, why he doesn't want to be with you, or why he doesn't want to try to work things out. Instead focus on yourself, on what you're worth. Really think about what you deserve and don't settle for anything else. Always stay positive, because believe me no women should shed a year for a guy who did her wrong. As a woman you got to give yourself your place and let your ex know you are worth so much more.
Learn to forgive: okay ladies this is crucial! You must learn to forgive your ex for whatever he may have done (yes no matter how ugly it was). Don't do it for him but for yourself because that anger and hatred is not good, it makes you bitter. So learn to forgive, move one and take a leap of faith and hope for the best.
        Alright ladies, these three things I just mentioned are key things that will help you move on. Don't get stuck in the past, let go of the pain and enjoy the beauty of life. And remember love happens when you least expect it.

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