Friends to Lovers

 

          Have you ever developed feelings for your best guy friend? Having so many things in common can lead to attraction. Every girl wants a guy who she can be her complete self around. However most often than not a girl questions if the friendship is worth being put at risk? This soon becomes a confusing and bitter sweet situation. But ladies let me tell you this, if you don’t take a leap of faith to find out if the relationship is meant to be our not you’ll always wonder what if, what if things did turn out? What I’m saying is don’t live wondering, but rather find out how he feels about you, how you both feel. However, keep in mind that I’m not telling you to declare your love him but rather try new things together and see if and how things work out. Here are some suggestions:

Hiking During the summer it’s always nice to explore the wilderness. Go with him alone. I can guarantee it’s a great place for a meaningful conversation. Share intimate stories (the kind you would like to share with a boyfriend) and slowly open up to have you feel (hint him but don’t literally tell him) play your cards right, tease him a little and have fun. 

Go on a mini vacation Whether it’s by land or by plane get away with him and a couple of close friends who know how you feel about him (this way they can give you space alone with him). Preferably get away to a place you both haven’t been to. That way everything is new and you’ll have to work as a team to decide on where to go, what to do, and how to get there (just please carry a map and don’t get lost.) This will show you how well you work together.               

Visit him during his lunch break Let him know how much you care and do something nice for him, surprise him one day by bringing him his favorite meal (this will get him thinking wow she’s sweet/ thoughtful) Make sure to tell him that you made the food especially for him (If things work out smoothly he will ask you to join him and you guys will make plans for later or a different day.)

 Now ladies these are just suggestions, if you’ve done some of these already then try something that’s new to you and your friend. If things however don’t work out between the two of you, don’t feel sad but rather happy that he was honest and was just looking out for your best interest (keep in mind that he never meant to hurt you.) Always cherish the friendship for great friends are hard to come by <3