Towel Wrap Your Wet Strands Without Damage

Honestly. Who knew that there was a process of wrapping a towel around your head? I sure didn't. Well, until recently when I completely got sick and tired of my hair going all wonky with the way that I always wrapped up my wet strands after a shower. I figured that there has to be a better way to do it! It's been around for years and seriously, who doesn't towel wrap when they come out of the shower? Anyway, I made it my mission as of late, to find a a process that won't leave my hair kinked here, knotted there, soaked here and completely dry there. Seriously. Need I say it again... Who knew towel wrapping was such a process? Oh! And guess what? There was no googling to these tips! I learned them from a prestigious and professional hair stylist!

GET RID OF THE BIG TOWEL
This was kind of a pet peeve of mine that I was very happy to get rid of. I was having to wash loads of towels simply because I used them so often for my hair, and unfortunately, the bigger the pillow, the larger the loads and the more laundry we have to do. Boring! Keep the body sized towels for your body. It makes sense, right? Instead, switch to a hand drying towel. If you're confused as to which ones these are, they are bigger than a face cloth, and smaller than a bathing towel. Simple enough, right?

FORGET THE FLIP
Okay, again... I'm sure I'm not the only female with this problem. I hate having to do the flip. I mean, our hair is soaking wet, and we have to flip it in order to get it off of our back to wrap it up in the towel, which essentially sprays water all over the place.... Especially if you have extremely long hair like yours truly! With this salon perfected towel wrapping tip, you simply grab your strands and place the towel across your back and shoulders. No flipping. No water to clean up. No whiplash!

PIN. PIN. PERFECT
Now, take the left corner of the towel and bring it up to the center of your hairline at the front. Hold it there, and take the right corner and bring it up, again, to the front of your hairline. It should go past the other corner that you're currently holding, allowing you to tuck the right corner tightly under, in place. Lastly, bring the back up, with your hair neatly tucked inside of course, and tuck that under the same piece. That's it! Your hair isn't twisted, therefore, it's not damaging your strands!!


I don't know if it's just me, but the typical way of wrapping towel around my hair simply hasn't ever worked, nor do I believe it ever will. Therefore, these three towel wrapping hair tips should spruce up my locks while actually making them dry, without making them style in a weird, towel wrapped kind of way. Hey! Let me know if they work for you too! I can't be the only girl with this problem, right?

Photo Credit: http://www.medimanage.com/my-looks/articles/frizzy-hair.aspx

Long-term Relationship 101

        

 

         Are you currently in a long term relationship? Do you feel like things have changed as you have been getting more comfortable with each other? A lot of times couples who have been together for over a year can get too comfortable with their partner. Now you may be wondering isn't that a good thing? And the answer is yes, as long as you guys always respect one another; being in a long term relationship takes work, in order for it to be great. Today I want to share with you ladies some things to consider in long term relationships.  
 

Keep Calm in Arguments: A lot of the times couples have arguments; arguments are good things to have because you are expressing things you wish to change. However arguing all the time, shouting at each other, and disrespecting one another is not healthy. Ladies when we argue we have to be smart, calm, and collected. Say what you intend without using words that are  mean, harsh, or disrespectful( another things to watch out for is your tones of voice; make sure it's serious enough for your men to understand your point and sweet enough for him to see your concern.) Now I know is easier said than done, but just try it, it really does work.

Space:  Most of the time all we want to do is spend time with the boyfriend, but ladies let’s be honest, he needs space to do his own thing; just as much as you need yours. Focusing all the attention on the boyfriend is not always the best thing because at some point or another he may think you're clingy, or perhaps you will feel like he's clingy and doesn't give you enough space. Remember ladies, just because you love him doesn't mean you have to be with him every time you can... it's good to make time for everything and everyone; don’t shut other people out!
 
Especial Dates: You're probably thinking don’t couples always have some type of date night? And yes they do, but I'm not talking about any regular date night. In a relationship it's important to keep the love flame alive. If you are in a long term relationship you get used to the other person and date nights become hangouts. Don't get me wrong it's awesome, but it’s even more awesome having especial dates. Now, do you remember when you two started dating, and where you guys went? Where ever it was that's the type of date you want to enjoy every now and then. And since we are talking long term you can both pitch in ideas on where to go and both of you can plan it out, making it extra especial. Doing these especial date nights will keep the romance alive.
 
      Alright ladies, there you have it. Remember think before you speak, give each other space, and to out on dates (like the ones you used to go before you guys made it official). Sometimes people get used to each other and loose some spark. If this is happening to your relationship or you fear it will, try the suggestions above.